Like a Child….

Children are precious. Their outlook on life is so trusting and sweet. Working with kids each day, I am amazed by these beautiful little people God has made. From their innate sense of their safety and comfort to their trusting hearts toward people who love and accept them, there is something special about kiddos. They delight in the present moment with all the energy and emotion their little hearts can stand. It's the littlest things that they remember and care about. And they love deeply and fiercely.

As I think about these precious little people, I can't help but remember how much Jesus loved children. When the disciples tried to keep the children from coming to see Jesus, He said, Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven (Matthew 19:14). Jesus welcomed children and considered them important. It was only shortly before this incident that Jesus had explained the connection between children and the kingdom of heaven.

The disciples had been arguing about who was the greatest or most important. When they came and asked Jesus to answer the question "Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?" Jesus called for a child to come near. He said, "Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven." Childlike humility is the key to heaven (Matthew 18:1-4).

Are you like a child before God? Do you trust Him? Do you reach up your arms to Him as your Daddy? Do you rest in His protection and care? Do you realize your insignificance and smallness and marvel at the greatness of His love for you? I know I need to be more like a child before the Lord. Childlike faith isn't simplistic. It is gentle. It is trusting. It is sweet. It is loving. It is humble.

I have had to say goodbye to so many children. Each month at work a new group of kids come and a new group leaves. It is so hard to say goodbye. The kids take part of my heart with them when they go away. But one day, when we reach heaven's gates, it will be amazing to be all together with our Lord, reuinited forever. We will then all get to be like children before God, with trusting, humble, childlike faith. For heaven is for those who will humble themselves like children before God.

Until then, to all my precious kiddos: I love you.

~ Christina

Soli Deo Gloria ~ To God Alone Be the Glory!

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Psalm 34:1-3

I will bless the Lord at all times; His praise shall continually be in my mouth.

My soul makes its boast in the Lord; let the humble hear and be glad.

Oh, magnify the Lord with me, and let us exalt his name together!

~ Psalm 34:1-3

I'm Smiling Today

I'm smiling today because God is here.

I'm smiling today because the sun shining behind the clouds made them look like they were rimmed in gold.

I'm smiling today because most of my school will be done before the weekend.

I'm smiling today because I celebrated my dad's birthday with him, my mom, and my sibs.

I'm smiling today because God hears my prayers and brings peace to my busy heart.

I'm smiling today because I cleaned up my room.

I'm smiling today because I had ice cream for dessert.

I'm smiling today because my little sister and I went for a "barefoot walk".

I'm smiling today because I'm writing.

I'm smiling today because God is good.

Are you smiling today? There is always something to smile about. Just look for it!

The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace. 

~ Numbers 6:24-26

Smiling,
Christina

Soli Deo Gloria ~ To God Alone Be the Glory!

Psalm 80:19

Restore us, O Lord God of hosts! Let your face shine, that we may be saved!

~ Psalm 80:19

The Tears and the Smiles

Those who sow with tears will reap with songs of joy. Psalm 126:5

Weddings are so much fun. I was blessed to attend another family wedding last weekend with my family. During the best man's toast, my cousin talked about the joy and the pain of life ahead for the newlyweds and how their family would stick together and stand by each other through it all. As I listened I couldn't help but think how often we romanticize life (not to mention marriage), unlike my cousin's loving perception of reality.

We wish people well and that they would have all happiness in their lives. We don't often talk about the tears. Earlier this summer I was looking for a wedding card for a friend who was getting married and found too many that wished the "happy couple" all the best and, literally, a painless ride. But that's not reality. Of course I want my cousins and friends to be happy in their marriages and lives and to have all the best. But tears are part of life. They enrich our lives.

Have you ever thought about what life would be like without tears? What if it was always happy and painless and pleasant? Wouldn't that grow dull? There are certainly times when we wish that the more painful things could be avoided, but they make the happy times all the sweeter. While heaven will be bliss without tears, life here on earth would be unbearable without them! My friend Amanda wrote in a Heart-to-Heart column back in December 2013: "I'm also grateful for feelings - emotions, expressions of love, forgiveness, surprise, joy, sadness... it makes life so colorful! The hard days only make the happy days sweeter, even though I may not see that in the moment. I'm thankful for it all!"

God didn't promises that life would be all smiles. We haven't made it to heaven yet, where He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away (Revelation 21:4). For now, there will be tears. But what is truly beautiful is that He is there through it all.

In the times when we can't stop smiling, He is right there, giving us the blessings that make us smile: Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change (James 1:17) and rejoicing with us and over us: The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing (Zephaniah 3:17).

At the same time, when He allows the pain and the tears just keep rolling down our cheeks or our hearts feel numb, He is there and He sees: You have kept count of my tossings; put my tears in your bottle. Are they not in your book? (Psalm 56:8). In our pain, He comforts us and blesses us with His peace and joy: Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God (2 Corinthians 1:3-4).

Think of it this way. God is the perfect Father (Matthew 5:48). He lavishes gifts on us (spiritual as well as physical) and when we smile, He smiles on us. Like any good father, He knows that the hard things in life grow and mold us, so He allows pain and suffering. But as a father comforts and cares for a hurting child, so God reaches down and comforts and cares for us. Imagine a child on his or her birthday, rejoicing over the attention and gifts and looking up at daddy with thanks and happiness. The father looks down with love, joy, and affection on his face. Then when a child cries over a skinned knee the daddy tends to it and hugs the child to his heart. So God, the perfect Daddy, reaches into our lives, through the smiles and the tears and graces our lives with His love and presence.

Life isn't all smiles. And it isn't all tears. It's both. God has molded our lives so beautifully as the Potter, working a pot of pain and happiness, laughter and crying, smiles and tears: But now, O Lord, you are our Father; we are the clay, and you are our potter; we are all the work of your hand (Isaiah 64:8). He is with us every step of the way. Are you crying today? He is with you. Are you laughing today? He is still with you. Keep smiling and crying. Smiles and tears are some of God's greatest blessings.

And the ransomed of the Lord shall return and come to Zion with singing; everlasting joy shall be upon their heads; they shall obtain gladness and joy, and sorrow and sighing shall flee away. ~ Isaiah 35:10

In Him,

Christina

Soli Deo Gloria ~ To God Alone Be the Glory!

Psalm 42:5

Why are you cast down, O my soul, and why are you in turmoil within me? 

Hope in God; for I shall again praise him, my salvation and my God. 

~ Psalm 42:11

Leftovers

Everything had been perfect, from the shiny silverware to the golden-brown turkey. Guests had enjoyed the perfectly cooked potatoes with a square lump of butter on top alongside their bright green beans. Scoops of ice cream ladled with caramel syrup and chocolate shavings had been set by each place for dessert. But now the guests were gone. I sighed at the sweet memory of the evening. My family walked into the room, and I turned to them. “Okay, now you guys can eat,” I said. They sat down to partake of the leftovers off of smudged silverware, chewing the bones and scraping the bottom of the bowls. 

I promise, I have never literally done this to my family. But I have often done it figuratively. Here’s how. It’s been a long day. I’m walking to my car after work, ready to get home and crash (even though I know that a pile of homework is waiting for me….) I’m almost to my car when a co-worker walks up and says hello. A smile instantly floods my face and I chat happily for a few minutes before I climb into the car. Alone again, my face melts into an emotionless expression. When I reach home, I pull the van up the driveway, climb out of the car, and walk in the door. Cheerful voices greet me, excited that I’ve returned home. I smile, but not as wide as I smiled at my co-worker. I chat, but it’s disinterested instead of engaged and I go upstairs to my room.

Sadly, I find that it’s a lot easier to give my family the leftovers instead of my best. Everyone else in my life gets my best efforts. My family? Well, they get whatever is left. What do I mean? Well, I’ll spend over an hour on the phone with a friend, but do I take the time to talk with my sister? I make a lot of effort to listen to friends and co-workers, but do I try just as hard to listen to my brother? I smile brightly at friends, co-workers, clients, and customers, but is my family greeted by only a small grin? I have a lot of grace for the shortcomings of others, but if a family member steps out of line…it’s another story.

These little things betray my priorities and they reveal who I really am. “You are only as holy as you are at home,” Eric Ludy wrote, in a book he penned with his wife, Leslie. This phrase has been ringing through my mind in recent weeks. I may seem holier to the people that aren’t my family, but who I really am is who I am each day with my family.

God has called us to love each other. There are so many verses in the Bible in which we are called to show honor, respect, service, and so much more toward the people in our lives. How often we overlook our families. But they deserve as much love, honor, respect, service, etc. as anyone else. Here are some areas that God has been impressing on my heart in which I can seek to show love and my best toward my family.

Show your family “perfect courtesy” with grace, good manners, and respect: “To speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people” (Titus 3:2)

Extend grace and forgiveness to your parents and siblings: “Pay attention to yourselves! If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him, and if he sins against you seven times in the day, and turns to you seven times, saying, ‘I repent,’ you must forgive him” (Luke 17:3-4).

Be humble and meek toward your family members instead of always defending yourself, vying for your rights, and focusing on yourself: “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others” (Philippians 2:3-4).

Seek to be unified and not at conflict with your family members: “Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity!” (Psalm 133:1).

Encourage your family in their individual lives and walk with the Lord; don’t tear them down or discourage them: “Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing” (1 Thessalonians 5:11).

Show your parents and siblings the fruit of the Spirit: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law” (Galatians 5:22-23).

Seek to love your family with true, sacrificial love, not wishy-washy, only-when-you-feel-like-it love: “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends” (1 Corinthians 13:4-8a).

Be honest and keep your word to your family members: “Deceit is in the heart of those who devise evil, but those who plan peace have joy” (Proverbs 12:20).

Spend time with your family, enjoying them and nurturing your relationships with your parents and siblings: “Love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:39b).

Perhaps this all sounds rather impossible. Let that impossibility and discouragement drive you to the cross, where Jesus has the answers. Jesus was the only one who was perfectly holy no matter where He went. And He will give us grace in our weakness to pursue holiness at home and in every area of our lives. “Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need” (Hebrews 4:16).

Our families are the most important people in our lives. They deserve our best efforts and love. And, let me tell you, it’s pretty amazing to give your family your best instead of your worst. It makes home life so very sweet. I’m grateful to be so close to my family and able to consider them my best friends. I want them to clearly see and know just how much I love them. God is working in me as I seek to give my family my best. Will you join me? Let us seek to give our families the lavish feast of our love, not our leftovers.

Learning to give my best to my family,
Christina

Soli Deo Gloria ~ To God Alone Be the Glory!

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